Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused, or denied. This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, mental or emotional rather than physical. There are many types of domestic violence and abuse. These can include physical, emotional, mental, psychological, sexual, verbal, social, financial, spiritual, stalking and damage to property.
Noticing and acknowledging the warning signs and symptoms of domestic violence and abuse is the first step to ending it. No one should live in fear of the person they love.
Domestic abuse, also known as spousal abuse, occurs when one person in an intimate relationship or marriage tries to dominate and control the other person. Domestic abuse that includes physical violence is called domestic violence.
Domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over you. An abuser doesnÃÂÂÂt ÃÂÂÂplay fair.ÃÂÂÂ Abusers use fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear you down and keep you under his or her thumb. Your abuser may also threaten you, hurt you, or hurt those around you.
Domestic violence and abuse does not discriminate. It happens among heterosexual couples and in same-sex partnerships. It occurs within all age ranges, ethnic backgrounds, and economic levels. And while women are more commonly victimized, men are also abusedÃÂÂÂespecially verbally and emotionally. The bottom line is that abusive behaviour is never acceptable, whether itÃÂÂÂs coming from a man, a woman, a teenager, or an older adult. You deserve to feel valued, respected, and safe.
HOW CAN I HELP
How do I know if someone I know is experiencing Domestic or Family Violence?
Remember that domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone.
Warning signs often subtle. The best way to find out if someone is experiencing domestic or family violence is to ask them.
Many women find it difficult to disclose that there is violence and abuse occurring, due to feelings of fear, shame and embarrassment.
The priority should always be the woman's safety and ensuring her confidentiality in the situation. It might be useful to consider some of the warning signs although it is important to keep in mind that each woman's experience of violence is unique and what she needs from you will also different from one situation to the next. |
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